1 00:00:20,803 --> 00:00:22,805 - ♪ Don't care what you think about it ♪ 2 00:00:22,848 --> 00:00:24,285 ♪ Ain't here to please nobody ♪ 3 00:00:24,328 --> 00:00:25,982 ♪ I'm the one they run for cover♪ 4 00:00:26,026 --> 00:00:27,679 ♪ Here comes trouble now 5 00:00:31,118 --> 00:00:35,687 ♪ Mend my wicked ways 6 00:00:35,731 --> 00:00:37,776 ♪ I'll get you into trouble now ♪ 7 00:00:37,820 --> 00:00:42,042 ♪ It's just so hard to behave ♪ 8 00:00:42,085 --> 00:00:44,000 ♪ Got you seeing double now 9 00:00:50,398 --> 00:00:52,269 ♪ I'm the one your mama told you ♪ 10 00:00:52,313 --> 00:00:54,184 ♪ I play the one as torture ♪ 11 00:00:54,228 --> 00:00:55,359 ♪ The risk you can't afford 12 00:00:55,403 --> 00:00:57,405 ♪ Here comes trouble now 13 00:00:57,448 --> 00:01:01,017 ♪ Turn it up all night 14 00:01:01,061 --> 00:01:04,194 ♪ Got you feeling high 15 00:01:04,238 --> 00:01:07,589 ♪ Turn it up all night 16 00:01:07,632 --> 00:01:10,113 ♪ Got you feeling high 17 00:01:10,157 --> 00:01:12,289 ♪ Get you into trouble now 18 00:01:28,653 --> 00:01:31,569 - Open relationships, I don't know if I could do it. 19 00:01:31,613 --> 00:01:33,615 I'm sure it would be very hard. 20 00:01:33,658 --> 00:01:36,835 - My true fantasy would be to have like a group experience 21 00:01:36,879 --> 00:01:38,141 of diverse people, 22 00:01:38,185 --> 00:01:41,057 incense burning and music playing. 23 00:01:41,101 --> 00:01:43,146 And the lighting is just right. 24 00:01:43,190 --> 00:01:44,843 - I had a, like, semi-orgy. 25 00:01:44,887 --> 00:01:46,802 I did please, like, eight guys at once one time. 26 00:01:46,845 --> 00:01:48,978 So that's like a little low-key orgy. 27 00:01:49,021 --> 00:01:50,719 - What intrigues me about the orgy is 28 00:01:50,762 --> 00:01:52,329 you're in an atmosphere of 29 00:01:52,373 --> 00:01:53,461 we're there to have a good time, 30 00:01:53,504 --> 00:01:55,289 we're there for an adventure. 31 00:01:55,332 --> 00:01:57,682 Let's light it up, let's fucking burn this place down. 32 00:01:57,726 --> 00:02:00,381 - I definitely want to just watch. 33 00:02:00,424 --> 00:02:01,469 And just be like, wow, wait, wait, wait, 34 00:02:01,512 --> 00:02:02,861 did you just do that? 35 00:02:02,905 --> 00:02:04,080 Okay. Wait, let me take notes on this 36 00:02:04,124 --> 00:02:06,169 because I'm gonna do that. 37 00:02:06,213 --> 00:02:08,650 - I tried an orgy when I was younger, 38 00:02:08,693 --> 00:02:11,566 and I was just like trying to lick someone's ass, 39 00:02:11,609 --> 00:02:14,395 because there was nothing else available, you know what I mean? 40 00:02:14,438 --> 00:02:16,179 - I'm Matt. - I'm Pat. 41 00:02:16,223 --> 00:02:17,789 - I'm Lisa. - I'm Ainsley. 42 00:02:17,833 --> 00:02:18,964 - I'm Daniela. 43 00:02:19,008 --> 00:02:20,357 - And this... - And this... 44 00:02:20,401 --> 00:02:22,446 - And this... - And this is my sex life. 45 00:02:22,490 --> 00:02:24,274 - Ha. - Let's get our freak on. 46 00:02:39,333 --> 00:02:40,899 - For the mushrooms? 47 00:02:40,943 --> 00:02:42,423 Yeah, it's going to be for the mushrooms, yeah. 48 00:02:42,466 --> 00:02:44,207 And might have to add some butter and oil, 49 00:02:44,251 --> 00:02:46,166 but we'll know in a few minutes. - Okay. 50 00:02:48,255 --> 00:02:49,691 - This is something. 51 00:02:49,734 --> 00:02:51,388 I don't know how to describe it. 52 00:02:51,432 --> 00:02:53,216 I don't know how to talk about it. 53 00:02:53,260 --> 00:02:56,263 It's an experience that we can't find anywhere else. 54 00:03:00,658 --> 00:03:02,138 [ giggling ] 55 00:03:04,749 --> 00:03:06,098 - Ooh, look what she has. 56 00:03:20,025 --> 00:03:21,810 - What about kohlrabi? 57 00:03:21,853 --> 00:03:23,333 Ah. 58 00:03:23,377 --> 00:03:25,335 Do you have any with the stems still attached? 59 00:03:25,379 --> 00:03:27,032 - No, no. - Okay, that's too bad. 60 00:03:30,732 --> 00:03:33,125 Think about one of the best dinners 61 00:03:33,169 --> 00:03:34,649 you've ever had in your life. 62 00:03:34,692 --> 00:03:36,259 Ah, here we go. 63 00:03:36,303 --> 00:03:38,914 What is one thing that would improve that dinner? 64 00:03:40,045 --> 00:03:42,874 My answer is sexy people. 65 00:03:49,707 --> 00:03:51,231 Almost done. 66 00:03:51,274 --> 00:03:53,537 Do you know if you have any whole green cardamom? 67 00:03:53,581 --> 00:03:55,800 I didn't see any in the spice rack. 68 00:03:55,844 --> 00:03:59,804 One of my good friends got married in Paris. 69 00:03:59,848 --> 00:04:01,284 Yes, I am a local chef. 70 00:04:01,328 --> 00:04:02,285 When we got back we wanted to do something... 71 00:04:02,329 --> 00:04:03,678 Take care. 72 00:04:03,721 --> 00:04:06,463 That was comparably glorious for them. 73 00:04:06,507 --> 00:04:09,118 We sat down and came up with the things 74 00:04:09,161 --> 00:04:10,902 that we knew that they enjoyed, 75 00:04:10,946 --> 00:04:13,253 and it was good food, good wine, and lots of tits. 76 00:04:21,173 --> 00:04:23,088 All right. 77 00:04:23,132 --> 00:04:26,266 And it just became a debauchery for them. 78 00:04:28,920 --> 00:04:33,403 I was in the kitchen by myself for hours. 79 00:04:33,447 --> 00:04:35,840 As the dinner progressed, it went from being 80 00:04:35,884 --> 00:04:37,929 like a normal dinner where you go to somebody's house 81 00:04:37,973 --> 00:04:39,540 and people are kind of like 82 00:04:39,583 --> 00:04:40,932 "I only have three more hours to get through this" 83 00:04:40,976 --> 00:04:43,544 to "Oh, my fucking God, this is amazing." 84 00:04:43,587 --> 00:04:44,632 Let's do this again. 85 00:04:47,896 --> 00:04:50,594 So, in addition to the 14 course meal, 86 00:04:50,638 --> 00:04:55,251 we will have the staff gradually undressing. 87 00:04:55,295 --> 00:04:58,036 We don't play below the waist, but the guests can. 88 00:04:59,690 --> 00:05:03,433 What you'll see is adults expressing 89 00:05:03,477 --> 00:05:06,436 their sensual playful selves 90 00:05:06,480 --> 00:05:09,744 however the hell they want to do that. 91 00:05:09,787 --> 00:05:13,313 You're going to walk out of here so fucking turned on, 92 00:05:13,356 --> 00:05:14,705 it's going to be dangerous to drive. 93 00:05:20,232 --> 00:05:22,278 - I could wear something like this. 94 00:05:22,322 --> 00:05:24,498 I love retro clothes. 95 00:05:24,541 --> 00:05:28,197 Our Gourmet Life gives people the opportunity 96 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:31,243 to do something that is out of the box for them. 97 00:05:31,287 --> 00:05:35,465 And in that they might find so many possibilities. 98 00:05:35,509 --> 00:05:39,077 I don't think life is meant to be comfortable. 99 00:05:39,121 --> 00:05:42,907 I am trying to, like, modulate pushing myself 100 00:05:42,951 --> 00:05:44,779 into that place of fear. 101 00:05:44,822 --> 00:05:49,523 Finding that sweet spot where you feel challenged 102 00:05:49,566 --> 00:05:53,265 but still being true to yourself and what you want. 103 00:05:53,309 --> 00:05:55,877 Okay. Okay, let's see. 104 00:05:55,920 --> 00:05:59,141 Elissa and I haven't known each other for that long, 105 00:05:59,184 --> 00:06:03,798 but we have had a couple of very hot dates. 106 00:06:03,841 --> 00:06:06,409 The first time we played, I left her with 107 00:06:06,453 --> 00:06:07,976 some really big bruises. 108 00:06:08,019 --> 00:06:11,153 And so, this'll be a fun way to, like, 109 00:06:11,196 --> 00:06:14,852 introduce her to some people that she doesn't know yet 110 00:06:14,896 --> 00:06:17,507 and to some things that she hasn't done yet. 111 00:06:17,551 --> 00:06:20,423 It's one of those events 112 00:06:20,467 --> 00:06:23,557 where, like, I don't have huge expectations, 113 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,995 but the possibilities are really hot. 114 00:06:36,570 --> 00:06:38,920 - I am going to Our Gourmet Life 115 00:06:38,963 --> 00:06:42,837 with Laurence, who is my partner but he's not my husband. 116 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:44,012 I am married. 117 00:06:45,361 --> 00:06:48,669 Laurence is also married to someone else, 118 00:06:48,712 --> 00:06:51,106 and we are going together without our partners. 119 00:06:53,630 --> 00:06:57,678 I think that you can still have commitment 120 00:06:57,721 --> 00:06:59,331 outside of monogamy. 121 00:06:59,375 --> 00:07:00,768 Like, I like to have relationships 122 00:07:00,811 --> 00:07:02,465 with lots of people. 123 00:07:02,509 --> 00:07:04,902 You can either do that in a shady way or a not shady way. 124 00:07:04,946 --> 00:07:06,817 I think it's good to have, like, different experiences 125 00:07:06,861 --> 00:07:08,340 with different people. 126 00:07:08,384 --> 00:07:10,299 When you're in a committed partnership, 127 00:07:10,342 --> 00:07:12,954 it's really easy to get into ruts. 128 00:07:12,997 --> 00:07:15,217 There's whole facets of your personality 129 00:07:15,260 --> 00:07:18,089 that, like, come out when you meet someone else. 130 00:07:18,133 --> 00:07:20,962 Having someone else unlock that can bring that 131 00:07:21,005 --> 00:07:23,268 to your primary live-in partner 132 00:07:23,312 --> 00:07:25,227 and bring excitement to your life. 133 00:07:26,489 --> 00:07:27,882 Like, that's the fun part. 134 00:07:31,755 --> 00:07:34,279 - So, option A, option B. 135 00:07:34,323 --> 00:07:36,543 - I still like the boots. 136 00:07:36,586 --> 00:07:37,805 - Yeah, the purple boots best? - Yeah. 137 00:07:37,848 --> 00:07:38,980 - Okay. - Yeah. 138 00:07:39,023 --> 00:07:40,329 That's what I wanna do. - Yeah. 139 00:07:40,372 --> 00:07:42,505 - God, I love you for picking 140 00:07:42,549 --> 00:07:44,986 the most comfortable option, really. 141 00:07:45,029 --> 00:07:47,902 I met Elissa not too long ago. 142 00:07:47,945 --> 00:07:49,643 She's new to the Bay area. 143 00:07:49,686 --> 00:07:51,514 This is kind of fun. 144 00:07:51,558 --> 00:07:57,389 And I know that she's interested in exploring this scene more, 145 00:07:57,433 --> 00:08:00,218 and she's done some really intense play. 146 00:08:00,262 --> 00:08:02,786 Your bruises are distracting me a little bit. 147 00:08:02,830 --> 00:08:05,920 - Oh, good, I'm glad. 148 00:08:05,963 --> 00:08:07,443 - Is there anything that you felt like 149 00:08:07,487 --> 00:08:09,750 ooh, I really want that? 150 00:08:09,793 --> 00:08:11,534 - I'd like to be collared. - Okay. 151 00:08:11,578 --> 00:08:13,144 - Yeah. - I love collaring. 152 00:08:13,188 --> 00:08:15,320 And collaring rituals, so, like, 153 00:08:15,364 --> 00:08:16,887 I'm excited that you're excited for that. 154 00:08:16,931 --> 00:08:17,888 - Yeah. - Like, that's gonna 155 00:08:17,932 --> 00:08:19,499 be really fun. 156 00:08:19,542 --> 00:08:21,631 - Normally, where would you go with this dinner? 157 00:08:21,675 --> 00:08:23,241 Like, how far does it... 158 00:08:23,285 --> 00:08:26,593 - You know, I have bound someone to a chair and fed them. 159 00:08:26,636 --> 00:08:28,203 - Okay. 160 00:08:28,246 --> 00:08:29,987 - I did think about how hot it would be 161 00:08:30,031 --> 00:08:32,033 to, like stretch you out on the table and spank you there. 162 00:08:32,076 --> 00:08:34,339 - Getting spanked over the table is really hot. 163 00:08:34,383 --> 00:08:36,167 [ laughing ] 164 00:08:36,211 --> 00:08:38,169 To wherever the night goes. - Yes. 165 00:08:43,435 --> 00:08:45,786 - Come on out, let me see. 166 00:08:45,829 --> 00:08:49,746 I like when we get to get out away from the children 167 00:08:49,790 --> 00:08:52,270 and do some adult activities. 168 00:08:52,314 --> 00:08:54,272 - I can get behind that. 169 00:08:54,316 --> 00:08:56,057 - That's what we need. 170 00:08:56,100 --> 00:09:00,365 - Mutually, we agree to explore other aspects. 171 00:09:00,409 --> 00:09:01,628 - I think that's it. Yeah. 172 00:09:01,671 --> 00:09:04,065 Exploring things. - Mm-hmm. Yeah. 173 00:09:04,108 --> 00:09:06,763 - I have a freaky side. 174 00:09:06,807 --> 00:09:09,940 - I've seen you with women. - That color. 175 00:09:09,984 --> 00:09:12,987 - You're acting like there's no-one else around. 176 00:09:13,030 --> 00:09:17,208 - We've experimented with all types of things. 177 00:09:17,252 --> 00:09:21,169 The only rule is that whatever we do, we do it together. 178 00:09:21,212 --> 00:09:22,562 It works for us. 179 00:09:32,223 --> 00:09:33,964 - So in addition to the courses, 180 00:09:34,008 --> 00:09:37,402 the intermediate dinner tends to be a little bit more 181 00:09:37,446 --> 00:09:38,665 out of control. 182 00:09:40,318 --> 00:09:41,929 - Cheers, everyone. - Cheers. 183 00:09:41,972 --> 00:09:43,670 - Nice to meet you. - Lovely to meet you guys. 184 00:09:43,713 --> 00:09:45,323 - Thank you. 185 00:09:45,367 --> 00:09:47,151 - I'm Sparrow. - Hi, Sparrow, I'm Cyphera. 186 00:09:47,195 --> 00:09:48,892 - Hi. 187 00:09:48,936 --> 00:09:50,502 - As I was telling you about, I was hoping she was here. 188 00:09:50,546 --> 00:09:51,634 - Nice to meet you. 189 00:09:51,678 --> 00:09:53,288 - Cheers. - Okay, baby. 190 00:09:53,331 --> 00:09:54,985 - Tess. And your name? - Laurence, nice to meet you. 191 00:09:55,029 --> 00:09:56,465 - Laura, was it? - Yeah. 192 00:09:56,508 --> 00:09:57,640 And your name, I'm sorry? - Laurence. 193 00:09:57,684 --> 00:09:59,337 - Laurence, nice to meet you. 194 00:09:59,381 --> 00:10:02,297 - Bless me, I'm planning to sin. 195 00:10:02,340 --> 00:10:03,559 [ laughing ] 196 00:10:03,603 --> 00:10:05,387 - For the build in the mouth appetizer, 197 00:10:05,430 --> 00:10:07,519 it's a little homage to BDSM. 198 00:10:07,563 --> 00:10:08,956 Position one of the guests on their knees 199 00:10:08,999 --> 00:10:10,348 in front of the server, 200 00:10:10,392 --> 00:10:12,437 and the server keeps their mouth open 201 00:10:12,481 --> 00:10:15,310 while you build the appetizer in the guest's mouth. 202 00:10:15,353 --> 00:10:18,095 Doesn't let the guest close their mouth until they're ready. 203 00:10:18,139 --> 00:10:20,010 - I wonder that churches might be a bit busier 204 00:10:20,054 --> 00:10:22,143 if this was the sort of thing they got. 205 00:10:22,186 --> 00:10:25,146 - It also gives the server a chance to express their, 206 00:10:25,189 --> 00:10:27,539 their dominance, their power. 207 00:10:27,583 --> 00:10:29,367 - Bring it in, get a sneak peek at the menu. 208 00:10:29,411 --> 00:10:31,239 - Wow, that is a menu. 209 00:10:31,282 --> 00:10:34,285 I hereby decree that this is going to be a very tasty dinner. 210 00:10:34,329 --> 00:10:35,504 [ glass clinking ] 211 00:10:35,547 --> 00:10:37,419 [ cheering ] 212 00:10:37,462 --> 00:10:38,986 - Thank you. 213 00:10:41,815 --> 00:10:43,251 Most of y'all have been here before, 214 00:10:43,294 --> 00:10:44,687 but I'll go over the-- you haven't been here before? 215 00:10:44,731 --> 00:10:45,688 - No. - Welcome. 216 00:10:45,732 --> 00:10:47,516 - Thank you. 217 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:49,083 - So, those of you who don't know what you're in for, 218 00:10:49,126 --> 00:10:51,041 this is an erotic dinner. 219 00:10:51,085 --> 00:10:54,566 You've got 16 courses coming you way. 220 00:10:54,610 --> 00:10:56,568 When we first came up with these dinners, 221 00:10:56,612 --> 00:10:58,658 this is the dinner that we created. 222 00:10:58,701 --> 00:11:02,096 And, we've been doing them for nearly 10 years. 223 00:11:02,139 --> 00:11:03,750 [ applause ] 224 00:11:03,793 --> 00:11:06,404 So, for those of you who haven't 225 00:11:06,448 --> 00:11:08,319 enjoyed one of our dinners before, 226 00:11:08,363 --> 00:11:11,888 we break nearly every rule of dinner service 227 00:11:11,932 --> 00:11:13,716 that exists on this planet. 228 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:16,197 The staff will be feeding you dinner. 229 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:19,722 Enjoy them, because I promise you, 230 00:11:19,766 --> 00:11:21,550 they're going to be enjoying you. 231 00:11:21,593 --> 00:11:23,421 So, bon apetit. 232 00:11:23,465 --> 00:11:26,468 [ applause ] 233 00:11:26,511 --> 00:11:29,427 The first three or four dinners, there was a lot of sex. 234 00:11:29,471 --> 00:11:31,473 All of the guests cleared everything off the table 235 00:11:31,516 --> 00:11:33,214 and they were just all on the table, fucking, 236 00:11:33,257 --> 00:11:34,824 and carrying on and all that kind of stuff. 237 00:11:34,868 --> 00:11:36,608 And I was like, "But I still have lobster." 238 00:11:39,524 --> 00:11:41,701 - Oh, we're getting a strip show. 239 00:11:41,744 --> 00:11:43,093 - You can tell me more. 240 00:11:52,668 --> 00:11:56,585 - I'm a person that really enjoys intensity. 241 00:11:56,628 --> 00:12:01,198 Having an experience that feels epic. 242 00:12:01,242 --> 00:12:03,548 What I get from kink is about that. 243 00:12:08,336 --> 00:12:11,165 - The goal is to give people the best erotic experience 244 00:12:11,208 --> 00:12:12,732 that we can give them. 245 00:12:12,775 --> 00:12:14,734 - I guess I should leave you to your food. 246 00:12:14,777 --> 00:12:15,996 - There's food here? - Yes. 247 00:12:16,039 --> 00:12:17,432 - Oh, yeah. 248 00:12:17,475 --> 00:12:20,435 - I want to produce an erotic experience 249 00:12:20,478 --> 00:12:23,612 that is the best erotic experience that I can create 250 00:12:23,655 --> 00:12:25,266 for them. 251 00:12:25,309 --> 00:12:27,268 What they do with it, that's up to them. 252 00:12:35,929 --> 00:12:37,974 - Something about someone's, like, warm breath 253 00:12:38,018 --> 00:12:39,976 on the side of your neck. 254 00:12:40,020 --> 00:12:41,543 - Mm-hmm. - Is really nice. 255 00:12:43,327 --> 00:12:46,940 I felt like Elissa was so present 256 00:12:46,983 --> 00:12:49,072 from the very beginning. 257 00:12:49,116 --> 00:12:51,858 - We're basically the same. - Yeah, basically the same. 258 00:12:51,901 --> 00:12:53,381 She's looking for pleasure. 259 00:12:53,424 --> 00:12:55,644 She wants it to feel good. 260 00:12:55,687 --> 00:12:58,168 And she wants to have an adventure. 261 00:12:58,212 --> 00:13:03,086 And I feel good mentoring her a little bit. 262 00:13:04,131 --> 00:13:06,133 [ laughing ] 263 00:13:06,176 --> 00:13:08,483 Is she your favorite so far? 264 00:13:08,526 --> 00:13:10,050 - I think so. - Yeah. 265 00:13:10,093 --> 00:13:12,400 - She has a self-possessed sensuality. 266 00:13:12,443 --> 00:13:14,968 - Yeah, self-possessed is a good word for it. 267 00:13:15,011 --> 00:13:16,578 - Mm-hmm. - Mm-hmm. 268 00:13:16,621 --> 00:13:18,188 - Lots to think about. 269 00:13:18,232 --> 00:13:20,408 If you're lucky enough... 270 00:13:20,451 --> 00:13:23,019 - Mm-hmm. - To be less warm. 271 00:13:23,063 --> 00:13:24,673 You're going to have to suffer. 272 00:13:28,068 --> 00:13:30,548 Because we're both in open relationships 273 00:13:30,592 --> 00:13:32,333 outside of monogamy, we're approaching 274 00:13:32,376 --> 00:13:34,117 our boundaries really carefully 275 00:13:34,161 --> 00:13:36,250 because we want to be sensitive to each other's partners. 276 00:13:36,293 --> 00:13:40,907 For me, my husband is still my life partner. 277 00:13:40,950 --> 00:13:43,866 I believe I can have another intimate partner 278 00:13:43,910 --> 00:13:46,390 and that doesn't take away any of the good aspects 279 00:13:46,434 --> 00:13:47,870 of my life partnership. 280 00:13:47,914 --> 00:13:49,524 In fact, like, I think it strengthens them. 281 00:13:53,789 --> 00:13:55,182 - She certainly likes to dust. 282 00:13:55,225 --> 00:13:57,010 - She does like to dust. - Yeah. 283 00:13:57,053 --> 00:13:59,926 - Are there people who shouldn't come to the dinner? Yeah. 284 00:13:59,969 --> 00:14:03,494 Nearly every intro dinner, there's at least one couple... 285 00:14:03,538 --> 00:14:06,410 to say they were reserved would be generous. 286 00:14:06,454 --> 00:14:08,804 By the end of the dinner, they're just as blissed out 287 00:14:08,848 --> 00:14:10,066 as everybody else. 288 00:14:15,811 --> 00:14:17,334 - Put it in the other hand. 289 00:14:17,378 --> 00:14:19,597 - In the other hand? - Yeah. 290 00:14:20,903 --> 00:14:23,427 - You are so funny. 291 00:14:23,471 --> 00:14:27,040 - We display our affection publicly. 292 00:14:27,083 --> 00:14:29,259 We're not overtly sexual, 293 00:14:29,303 --> 00:14:32,915 but we don't hide the sexuality. 294 00:14:32,959 --> 00:14:35,787 - Seeing him excited excites me. - Yeah. 295 00:14:35,831 --> 00:14:37,833 - And he's the same way, he sees I'm excited... 296 00:14:37,877 --> 00:14:39,356 - Yeah. - Then he gets excited. 297 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:43,012 - May I run this up the center of your belly? 298 00:14:43,056 --> 00:14:46,407 - Of course. Ooh! Nice and chill. 299 00:14:46,450 --> 00:14:47,930 - Should we Lady and the Tramp it? 300 00:14:47,974 --> 00:14:49,453 - Yes. - Okay. 301 00:14:49,497 --> 00:14:50,933 I think this is a... - Which side do you want? 302 00:14:50,977 --> 00:14:52,456 - I'll go to the far side. 303 00:14:52,500 --> 00:14:54,850 - Oh, thank you for making it easier on us. 304 00:14:54,894 --> 00:14:56,286 - Oh, of course. 305 00:14:57,984 --> 00:14:59,550 [ laughs ] 306 00:14:59,594 --> 00:15:01,291 - Sorry, I shoved... I shoved my boobs in your face. 307 00:15:01,335 --> 00:15:04,251 - I think that's a plus. - I don't mind at all. 308 00:15:04,294 --> 00:15:05,295 [ laughing ] 309 00:15:07,210 --> 00:15:10,735 - That is a beautiful ass. - Mmm. Mmm. 310 00:15:12,650 --> 00:15:16,002 - You have a beautiful ass. - Thank you. 311 00:15:16,045 --> 00:15:17,873 - It's amazing. 312 00:15:17,917 --> 00:15:22,138 Yes. It is. 313 00:15:22,182 --> 00:15:23,923 Gorgeous. 314 00:15:25,272 --> 00:15:28,101 - It's got a little warmer in here. 315 00:15:36,109 --> 00:15:37,240 - Yeah, it's... 316 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,080 - What's that? 317 00:15:51,124 --> 00:15:53,213 - Light speed. - Oh, quick. 318 00:15:53,256 --> 00:15:54,475 - Oh my gosh. 319 00:15:54,518 --> 00:15:57,043 - As the dinner starts to unfold, 320 00:15:57,086 --> 00:16:01,612 we will have the staff invite the guests 321 00:16:01,656 --> 00:16:04,050 to move to a different part of the room 322 00:16:04,093 --> 00:16:06,835 where they'll do a caviar service. 323 00:16:06,878 --> 00:16:09,620 Guests can do caviar off the nipple. 324 00:16:09,664 --> 00:16:13,407 Whether it's their own or their partner's nipple, 325 00:16:13,450 --> 00:16:17,585 or one of the servers or somebody else's, 326 00:16:17,628 --> 00:16:21,632 then the guests and server start to change the dynamic 327 00:16:21,676 --> 00:16:22,807 of their interactions. 328 00:16:24,940 --> 00:16:26,681 - Thank you. 329 00:16:26,724 --> 00:16:29,162 - Wait, let me take you on tour to the bathroom. 330 00:16:29,205 --> 00:16:30,598 - Okay. - Yes. 331 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:35,516 [ laughs ] 332 00:16:35,559 --> 00:16:37,909 - I did not expect it to go this much further. 333 00:16:37,953 --> 00:16:39,346 - I know, I love it. 334 00:16:39,389 --> 00:16:42,349 Part of me just wanted to move and stretch. 335 00:16:42,392 --> 00:16:45,047 And it was a way of making sure, like, 336 00:16:45,091 --> 00:16:46,483 "Okay, you having fun? 337 00:16:46,527 --> 00:16:47,876 Is this good for you?" 338 00:16:47,919 --> 00:16:49,660 As soon as we went in there, I knew 339 00:16:49,704 --> 00:16:51,880 all those answers were, "Yes, yes, yes." 340 00:16:51,923 --> 00:16:54,709 See, now, everyone's gonna see your ass. 341 00:16:54,752 --> 00:16:56,058 [ chuckles ] 342 00:16:56,102 --> 00:16:57,625 When we were in the bathroom, 343 00:16:57,668 --> 00:17:03,152 I felt like I could really feel her in that moment. 344 00:17:03,196 --> 00:17:05,459 I had her hands on the counter. 345 00:17:07,939 --> 00:17:11,900 And I'm spanking her at a good medium. 346 00:17:11,943 --> 00:17:14,337 Let's say, a solid five. 347 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,735 Maybe this would be a good time to put a collar on you. 348 00:17:20,778 --> 00:17:22,780 - That would be fantastic. - Yeah. 349 00:17:22,824 --> 00:17:26,045 Let's go to the toy wagon, see what I can grab. 350 00:17:30,310 --> 00:17:32,486 Some of the kind of like sensual attention 351 00:17:32,529 --> 00:17:35,532 that the servers are giving, not everyone's gonna like it. 352 00:17:35,576 --> 00:17:37,491 - Free yourself. 353 00:17:37,534 --> 00:17:39,493 - Which doesn't mean that they're not getting something 354 00:17:39,536 --> 00:17:42,452 really erotic and sensual from the experience. 355 00:17:44,324 --> 00:17:45,977 - Ules and Tanisha, 356 00:17:46,021 --> 00:17:48,676 we can't tell what their experience is 357 00:17:48,719 --> 00:17:49,981 by looking at them. 358 00:17:50,025 --> 00:17:51,896 - Would you like some chocolate? 359 00:17:51,940 --> 00:17:54,116 - All of your senses are being stimulated. 360 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,379 The sight, the sound, the smells, 361 00:17:56,423 --> 00:17:58,120 the taste, everything... the touch... 362 00:17:58,164 --> 00:17:59,774 everything is being stimulated. 363 00:17:59,817 --> 00:18:03,691 And it is, for some people, extremely confronting. 364 00:18:03,734 --> 00:18:08,391 Even people who don't express themselves in ways 365 00:18:08,435 --> 00:18:11,264 that we expect can be having 366 00:18:11,307 --> 00:18:14,615 exactly the experience that they want to have. 367 00:18:14,658 --> 00:18:17,835 If you're willing to just enjoy being alive, 368 00:18:17,879 --> 00:18:19,620 if only for three hours, 369 00:18:19,663 --> 00:18:21,535 it's a good place for you. 370 00:18:31,197 --> 00:18:34,156 - Let me unveil this ass. - Go for it. 371 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:38,726 - When people say, oh, that makes me really uncomfortable, 372 00:18:38,769 --> 00:18:41,598 I recognize that it's coming from a place of fear. 373 00:18:41,642 --> 00:18:45,776 And so I don't want to be ruled by that. 374 00:18:45,820 --> 00:18:49,084 We're not supposed to stay in our comfort zone. 375 00:18:49,128 --> 00:18:50,433 - Mmm. 376 00:18:50,477 --> 00:18:52,914 - God, I'm gonna put my hand on you. 377 00:18:52,957 --> 00:18:54,568 - I love the blindfolds. 378 00:18:54,611 --> 00:18:56,309 - I want you to bring her head up. 379 00:18:57,919 --> 00:18:59,094 That's perfect. 380 00:18:59,138 --> 00:19:00,617 Good, hold her there. 381 00:19:00,661 --> 00:19:02,750 How's everything going for you so far? 382 00:19:02,793 --> 00:19:04,186 - It's so good. - Yeah? 383 00:19:04,230 --> 00:19:05,840 - Yeah. 384 00:19:05,883 --> 00:19:09,713 - So, we're going to move slowly and carefully. 385 00:19:09,757 --> 00:19:11,106 - Thank you. 386 00:19:11,150 --> 00:19:12,325 - Just listen to the sound of my voice. 387 00:19:12,368 --> 00:19:14,544 Come towards me. Good. 388 00:19:14,588 --> 00:19:16,851 Do you still hear me? - Yes. 389 00:19:16,894 --> 00:19:18,374 - Keep coming. 390 00:19:18,418 --> 00:19:21,116 You're going really fast now, you brave girl. 391 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:22,509 Stop. 392 00:19:22,552 --> 00:19:26,165 I knew that Elissa was enjoying herself. 393 00:19:26,208 --> 00:19:29,037 There were moments later when we started to play 394 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:32,258 where I just wanted to make sure that she is 395 00:19:32,301 --> 00:19:35,130 into it in every moment going forward. 396 00:19:35,174 --> 00:19:37,567 And she was like, "Yes, please." 397 00:19:37,611 --> 00:19:39,961 Let's see what's going on over here. Come with me. 398 00:19:40,004 --> 00:19:41,092 [ clicks tongue ] 399 00:19:43,530 --> 00:19:47,577 Is there anything you want before I close us 400 00:19:47,621 --> 00:19:49,840 and tell you to get in the cab and go home 401 00:19:49,884 --> 00:19:51,015 so you can work? 402 00:19:51,059 --> 00:19:52,495 [ laughs ] 403 00:19:52,539 --> 00:19:54,976 Knowing Elissa had a great time at the dinner 404 00:19:55,019 --> 00:19:58,109 is exactly what I wanted. 405 00:19:58,153 --> 00:20:00,373 I wanted to enjoy myself, 406 00:20:00,416 --> 00:20:03,027 but I get more enjoyment from knowing 407 00:20:03,071 --> 00:20:05,073 that she enjoyed herself. 408 00:20:05,116 --> 00:20:07,206 Elissa was amazing. 409 00:20:07,249 --> 00:20:09,208 - That was so good. 410 00:20:09,251 --> 00:20:11,558 The cheesecake, mmm. 411 00:20:12,950 --> 00:20:14,387 - I'm power struggling. 412 00:20:19,522 --> 00:20:20,480 Thanks, you two. 413 00:20:20,523 --> 00:20:22,177 - Thank you. 414 00:20:22,221 --> 00:20:24,614 There's a freedom that comes along with exploring 415 00:20:24,658 --> 00:20:26,399 your sexuality. 416 00:20:26,442 --> 00:20:28,879 That was nice. 417 00:20:28,923 --> 00:20:30,925 Anything is possible. 418 00:20:30,968 --> 00:20:32,013 - Oh, please. - I hope you enjoyed it. 419 00:20:32,056 --> 00:20:33,710 - Yeah, that was great. 420 00:20:33,754 --> 00:20:37,236 - I personally find the way to have fun at sex parties 421 00:20:37,279 --> 00:20:39,368 is to not have any expectations. 422 00:20:39,412 --> 00:20:41,631 To be open to experiences, 423 00:20:41,675 --> 00:20:44,721 and to focus on individual interactions. 424 00:20:44,765 --> 00:20:47,333 Then anything else that happens is fun and exciting. 425 00:20:47,376 --> 00:20:51,032 But those other things are really what excites me. 426 00:20:51,075 --> 00:20:53,295 That opportunity to form, like, 427 00:20:53,339 --> 00:20:57,125 closeness even if it's for a small bit of intimacy. 428 00:20:57,168 --> 00:20:58,909 Even if it's with someone you don't know. 429 00:20:58,953 --> 00:21:00,520 - Here we go. 430 00:21:01,999 --> 00:21:04,915 - So what do I get out of the dinners? 431 00:21:04,959 --> 00:21:08,571 I get to see people grow and play 432 00:21:08,615 --> 00:21:11,182 in ways that I wish I could have done in my 20s. 433 00:21:11,226 --> 00:21:15,317 'Cause that venue didn't exist for me. 434 00:21:15,361 --> 00:21:17,711 And I get to learn how to be an amazing chef. 435 00:21:19,060 --> 00:21:20,975 In my fantasy, 436 00:21:21,018 --> 00:21:23,194 and truly just fantasy, 437 00:21:23,238 --> 00:21:26,067 we would all be having sex with each other all the time 438 00:21:26,110 --> 00:21:28,765 like we shake hands or like we hug. 439 00:21:28,809 --> 00:21:30,724 Ah! 440 00:21:30,767 --> 00:21:32,247 If money were no object, 441 00:21:32,291 --> 00:21:34,423 where would I want to take Our Gourmet Life? 442 00:21:34,467 --> 00:21:36,860 [ chuckles ] 443 00:21:36,904 --> 00:21:38,688 The world is not ready for that. 444 00:21:40,647 --> 00:21:42,562 [ laughing, spanking ] 445 00:21:46,087 --> 00:21:48,176 - ♪ Don't you want to make some more ♪ 446 00:21:48,219 --> 00:21:50,570 ♪ Don't you want to make some more ♪ 447 00:21:50,613 --> 00:21:52,572 - He has a fetish. - I, yeah. 448 00:21:52,615 --> 00:21:54,095 - It's gonna be something really crazy. 449 00:21:54,138 --> 00:21:55,444 - No, don't do that. Okay, fine, I guess. 450 00:21:55,488 --> 00:21:57,403 - It's Cholula sauce. 451 00:21:57,446 --> 00:22:00,667 - We would go through, like, a bottle. Like, in one night. 452 00:22:00,710 --> 00:22:02,277 - Cholula's not just for the kitchen. 453 00:22:02,321 --> 00:22:03,365 - It goes quick. 454 00:22:03,409 --> 00:22:05,367 - Oh, uh, years ago, 455 00:22:05,411 --> 00:22:06,934 you know, it was, like the chocolate, 456 00:22:06,977 --> 00:22:08,327 and of course, the... - Whipping cream. 457 00:22:08,370 --> 00:22:09,371 - Whipped cream. 458 00:22:09,415 --> 00:22:12,113 Eating out of the navel... 459 00:22:12,156 --> 00:22:14,507 - But we were getting fat. - That was kind of... 460 00:22:14,550 --> 00:22:16,726 - I had a friend who had to go to the hospital. 461 00:22:16,770 --> 00:22:19,381 She had to get the strawberries removed 462 00:22:19,425 --> 00:22:21,601 'cause she couldn't get it. 463 00:22:21,644 --> 00:22:23,603 - I've never been naked on a cake. 464 00:22:23,646 --> 00:22:26,780 However, if there was an opportunity to do something 465 00:22:26,823 --> 00:22:29,913 like that for my husband privately, absolutely. 466 00:22:29,957 --> 00:22:31,959 Why not? It's not like spaghetti. 467 00:22:32,002 --> 00:22:33,482 - Right. 468 00:22:33,526 --> 00:22:35,571 - ♪ Don't you want to make some more ♪ 469 00:22:35,615 --> 00:22:38,487 ♪ Don't you want to make some more ♪ 470 00:22:39,923 --> 00:22:40,881 [ cheering ] 471 00:22:40,924 --> 00:22:42,622 - Burlesque is magic. 472 00:22:42,665 --> 00:22:46,365 - Burlesque is sexuality and femininity. 473 00:22:46,408 --> 00:22:49,411 - Burlesque is fucking crazy. 474 00:22:49,455 --> 00:22:51,282 [ cheering ] 475 00:22:51,326 --> 00:22:52,719 - Burlesque in its modern form 476 00:22:52,762 --> 00:22:54,373 has taken on new life and meaning. 477 00:22:54,416 --> 00:22:57,158 You make it voluptuous, voluminous. 478 00:22:57,201 --> 00:22:58,594 You blow it up, you make fun of it. 479 00:22:58,638 --> 00:23:00,640 It's a really good form of entertainment. 480 00:23:00,683 --> 00:23:03,033 - I figured out a way with burlesque 481 00:23:03,077 --> 00:23:04,818 to show my butt without getting arrested. 482 00:23:04,861 --> 00:23:07,386 [ cheering ] 483 00:23:12,608 --> 00:23:14,436 - Spread your legs and make some noise, 484 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:18,658 the legend and icon, Mosh! 485 00:23:18,701 --> 00:23:20,834 [ cheering ] 486 00:23:25,142 --> 00:23:28,537 - Burlesque, by definition, is a satire 487 00:23:28,581 --> 00:23:32,498 that had stars, the strippers. 488 00:23:34,630 --> 00:23:36,763 I say that all the time, I'm just a stripper. 489 00:23:36,806 --> 00:23:39,418 But just a stripper just has a lot 490 00:23:39,461 --> 00:23:40,854 packed into it. 491 00:23:42,072 --> 00:23:44,466 What makes burlesque sexy 492 00:23:44,510 --> 00:23:46,947 to the public really depends on the viewer. 493 00:23:46,990 --> 00:23:49,645 Could be the way you took off that garment, 494 00:23:49,689 --> 00:23:52,300 that glance you gave somebody in the front row. 495 00:23:52,343 --> 00:23:54,868 Maybe whatever moment you shared between 496 00:23:54,911 --> 00:23:57,436 somebody you hit on the head with your bra, 497 00:23:57,479 --> 00:23:59,655 and you let the sensual nature of it 498 00:23:59,699 --> 00:24:01,744 kind of move you. 499 00:24:11,145 --> 00:24:13,147 So I was born in Moscow, Russia, 500 00:24:13,190 --> 00:24:14,757 then the Soviet Union. 501 00:24:14,801 --> 00:24:18,152 My parents were elite-level gymnasts, 502 00:24:18,195 --> 00:24:20,328 and they became my coaches. 503 00:24:21,851 --> 00:24:24,288 And as soon as I hit level 10, 504 00:24:24,332 --> 00:24:28,510 I injured my elbow and I couldn't go back. 505 00:24:28,554 --> 00:24:30,730 When I create a performance, I never sit down and think, 506 00:24:30,773 --> 00:24:32,601 I'm gonna make something new. 507 00:24:32,645 --> 00:24:35,082 No, it's usually something that sparks it. 508 00:24:35,125 --> 00:24:37,476 It could be a piece of clothing I see, 509 00:24:37,519 --> 00:24:39,434 it could be a little clip that I see. 510 00:24:39,478 --> 00:24:43,525 And the way that it comes into my head, 511 00:24:43,569 --> 00:24:46,093 I'll try to sketch that out as quickly as I can. 512 00:24:46,136 --> 00:24:49,139 From there I'll start building the cohesive show with it. 513 00:24:50,140 --> 00:24:51,446 Pretty great, too. 514 00:24:54,405 --> 00:24:57,844 I ripped off kind of a version of this for a costume. 515 00:24:59,541 --> 00:25:00,673 I get to wear the original, too. 516 00:25:00,716 --> 00:25:02,022 It's very fun. 517 00:25:02,065 --> 00:25:04,372 This was a souvenir piece, 518 00:25:04,415 --> 00:25:07,462 but it's supposedly the dressing room keys to Jean Harlow's 519 00:25:07,506 --> 00:25:09,464 dressing room at MGM. 520 00:25:09,508 --> 00:25:11,684 A lot of the stuff, yeah, I collect because 521 00:25:11,727 --> 00:25:14,730 um, in some way, shape, or form it may 522 00:25:14,774 --> 00:25:17,559 inspire a shoot or a show. 523 00:25:17,603 --> 00:25:20,693 I collect things that kind of flip a switch in my brain. 524 00:25:22,172 --> 00:25:24,131 I believe that everybody has their own art form. 525 00:25:25,915 --> 00:25:26,916 That's where it started. 526 00:25:27,917 --> 00:25:29,179 [ camera shutter clicks ] 527 00:25:29,223 --> 00:25:30,703 - Come over this way just a little. 528 00:25:30,746 --> 00:25:31,704 Right there. 529 00:25:31,747 --> 00:25:33,619 And then out the window. 530 00:25:33,662 --> 00:25:35,098 - Burlesque is, in some ways, 531 00:25:35,142 --> 00:25:37,231 one of the purest forms of celebration 532 00:25:37,274 --> 00:25:39,886 of ultimate female freedom. 533 00:25:39,929 --> 00:25:41,975 It glorifies the female form 534 00:25:42,018 --> 00:25:44,630 to its utmost potential. 535 00:25:44,673 --> 00:25:46,240 I love it. 536 00:25:49,330 --> 00:25:52,463 - It's time we saw some man meat here tonight. 537 00:25:52,507 --> 00:25:54,074 [ cheering ] 538 00:25:54,117 --> 00:25:55,379 - That's right! 539 00:25:55,423 --> 00:25:57,338 Behind this curtain right now 540 00:25:57,381 --> 00:26:00,646 we have a superstar of "boylesque". 541 00:26:00,689 --> 00:26:01,821 [ cheering ] 542 00:26:01,864 --> 00:26:03,910 - Ready to come out here... 543 00:26:03,953 --> 00:26:09,176 - So many people have this idea of what classic burlesque is. 544 00:26:09,219 --> 00:26:12,919 Women in ball gowns taking their clothes off. 545 00:26:12,962 --> 00:26:17,532 Boylesque to me is very simply male burlesque. 546 00:26:17,576 --> 00:26:20,622 Performing masculinity onstage through striptease. 547 00:26:20,666 --> 00:26:22,755 [ Spanish music ] 548 00:26:30,676 --> 00:26:32,112 [ electronic music ] 549 00:26:34,070 --> 00:26:36,812 - I think people come to see my performances 550 00:26:36,856 --> 00:26:39,554 just to laugh and be titillated. 551 00:26:39,598 --> 00:26:42,426 It's sexy and edgy. 552 00:26:42,470 --> 00:26:45,168 But it's infused with enough humor and joy 553 00:26:45,212 --> 00:26:47,518 that you don't walk away feeling like you just 554 00:26:47,562 --> 00:26:50,826 downloaded a whole bunch of porn off of Xtube or something. 555 00:26:52,219 --> 00:26:54,134 [ audience whooping ] 556 00:26:54,177 --> 00:26:55,875 I think performing gives me 557 00:26:55,918 --> 00:26:58,442 that immediate sense of gratification. 558 00:26:58,486 --> 00:27:00,662 The reality is I don't think we'd be 559 00:27:00,706 --> 00:27:03,143 taking our clothes off onstage if we didn't feel like 560 00:27:03,186 --> 00:27:05,711 we needed people to acknowledge us or cheer for us 561 00:27:05,754 --> 00:27:07,669 or love us. 562 00:27:07,713 --> 00:27:11,281 And performing in burlesque is a way for me to create work 563 00:27:11,325 --> 00:27:15,938 that I'm proud of, this joy of sexual expression 564 00:27:15,982 --> 00:27:17,636 and share with people. 565 00:27:21,727 --> 00:27:24,468 The two essential components to burlesque are 566 00:27:24,512 --> 00:27:25,687 the strip and the tease. 567 00:27:27,036 --> 00:27:28,647 I love creating my costumes. 568 00:27:30,257 --> 00:27:32,738 It helps me really kind of personalize the number 569 00:27:32,781 --> 00:27:35,218 and get into the bones of the number 570 00:27:35,262 --> 00:27:36,698 that I'm going to be doing. 571 00:27:38,744 --> 00:27:42,443 You're trying to always be one step ahead of the audience. 572 00:27:42,486 --> 00:27:46,316 We all know that you're going to take your clothes off. 573 00:27:46,360 --> 00:27:48,710 It's the journey of that, though, 574 00:27:48,754 --> 00:27:50,451 that we actually find interesting. 575 00:27:50,494 --> 00:27:54,629 Sex is what attracts the audience to begin with. 576 00:27:54,673 --> 00:27:57,763 It's that promise of the forbidden. 577 00:27:57,806 --> 00:28:01,505 The fear about enjoying one's body 578 00:28:01,549 --> 00:28:04,683 is for some reason, you know, extreme. 579 00:28:06,554 --> 00:28:08,121 - You're gonna be great. You're gonna be great. 580 00:28:08,164 --> 00:28:09,775 I don't know why you're... 581 00:28:09,818 --> 00:28:13,169 ♪ Us, us, us, us us Us, us ♪ 582 00:28:13,213 --> 00:28:14,388 ♪ Us 583 00:28:14,431 --> 00:28:16,956 This is me just practicing 584 00:28:16,999 --> 00:28:18,914 the things that I'm gonna do after the show. 585 00:28:20,873 --> 00:28:22,701 Hi, my name is Tito Bonito, 586 00:28:22,744 --> 00:28:25,660 and I'm known as the Cuban Missile Crisis of burlesque. 587 00:28:25,704 --> 00:28:27,531 You want to see my apartment? 588 00:28:27,575 --> 00:28:31,361 You want to see the magic that is the Bay of Pigs? 589 00:28:31,405 --> 00:28:33,755 So, I have a lot of Cuban influences everywhere 590 00:28:33,799 --> 00:28:37,454 because I'm trying to, you know, have respect to my culture. 591 00:28:37,498 --> 00:28:39,152 I grew up in Miami, Florida. 592 00:28:39,195 --> 00:28:41,154 I was super sexually repressed, 593 00:28:41,197 --> 00:28:43,504 especially just being in the closet in a different time 594 00:28:43,547 --> 00:28:45,767 where it was just not as accepting. 595 00:28:45,811 --> 00:28:49,728 I have a little petri dish of pasties. 596 00:28:49,771 --> 00:28:52,905 A little suit and tie. 597 00:28:52,948 --> 00:28:55,081 A little heart for when I do Tin Man. 598 00:28:55,124 --> 00:28:58,345 Stop. Oh my God. These are so messed up. 599 00:28:58,388 --> 00:29:00,434 When I was first thinking about doing burlesque, 600 00:29:00,477 --> 00:29:02,479 I went straight to my family. 601 00:29:02,523 --> 00:29:04,220 For when I perform tonight. 602 00:29:04,264 --> 00:29:06,745 My family, tremendo Cuban, just like, 603 00:29:06,788 --> 00:29:08,964 super just like judgmental, 604 00:29:09,008 --> 00:29:11,184 they were always like, what is he doing? 605 00:29:11,227 --> 00:29:13,926 He's performing porn, but he's dancing? 606 00:29:13,969 --> 00:29:15,623 Is he a drag queen? 607 00:29:15,666 --> 00:29:18,017 Not even understanding what it is until they saw it. 608 00:29:18,060 --> 00:29:19,540 That's when they were like, 609 00:29:19,583 --> 00:29:21,498 "Oh, there's nothing wrong with this." 610 00:29:21,542 --> 00:29:23,674 You like that? 611 00:29:23,718 --> 00:29:25,111 That chubby butty. 612 00:29:25,154 --> 00:29:26,765 Chubby butt. 613 00:29:26,808 --> 00:29:29,419 My favorite part of burlesque as a performer 614 00:29:29,463 --> 00:29:32,422 is understanding that we're going to see all kinds of bodies 615 00:29:32,466 --> 00:29:33,772 no matter what they look like, 616 00:29:33,815 --> 00:29:35,425 and we're going to appreciate them. 617 00:29:35,469 --> 00:29:37,514 You can see this pimple that's happening right now? 618 00:29:37,558 --> 00:29:40,604 I don't have to put makeup on, I can just cover it 619 00:29:40,648 --> 00:29:42,389 with a tassel. 620 00:29:42,432 --> 00:29:43,999 That's called genius. 621 00:29:44,043 --> 00:29:46,610 Because I'm not ripped, I'm not, like, shredded. 622 00:29:46,654 --> 00:29:48,699 I'm not in shape. My chest, like, caves in. 623 00:29:48,743 --> 00:29:52,573 But allowing myself to just own my body and be in that space 624 00:29:52,616 --> 00:29:54,923 and that in itself, that's my favorite part about burlesque 625 00:29:54,967 --> 00:29:56,577 for sure. 626 00:29:56,620 --> 00:29:59,710 I think we're pretty much ready to put on a show. 627 00:29:59,754 --> 00:30:01,364 [ sighs ] 628 00:30:01,408 --> 00:30:03,845 [ burlesque music plays ] 629 00:30:08,937 --> 00:30:11,113 - With my stage shows, I like 630 00:30:11,157 --> 00:30:14,073 peeling layers because there's more outfit you can see. 631 00:30:14,116 --> 00:30:17,250 So, I'll have the gown on top, the separate parts underneath. 632 00:30:17,293 --> 00:30:19,208 Underneath that, I'll have the undergarments. 633 00:30:19,252 --> 00:30:20,993 Underneath that, I'll have more crystals. 634 00:30:21,036 --> 00:30:25,040 It's like a four piece fashion show. 635 00:30:25,084 --> 00:30:26,520 For me, it's really fun. 636 00:30:34,441 --> 00:30:37,705 What I find sexy is somebody who finds 637 00:30:37,748 --> 00:30:40,490 their art form in life, 638 00:30:40,534 --> 00:30:45,408 have a very good sense of humor about it, 639 00:30:45,452 --> 00:30:49,282 and about the things that they're interested in. 640 00:30:49,325 --> 00:30:51,937 And being very grounded in themselves 641 00:30:51,980 --> 00:30:54,940 and their attitude. 642 00:30:54,983 --> 00:30:58,334 Everything else is just a facade. 643 00:30:59,683 --> 00:31:00,684 [ audience cheering ] 644 00:31:00,728 --> 00:31:02,425 - Mosh, ladies and gentlemen. 645 00:31:02,469 --> 00:31:04,384 [ cheering ] 646 00:31:11,782 --> 00:31:16,048 - I draw a lot of inspiration from these archetypes 647 00:31:16,091 --> 00:31:19,355 of Village People and Liberace, 648 00:31:19,399 --> 00:31:22,358 performers that sold this idea of masculinity 649 00:31:22,402 --> 00:31:23,359 with a twist. 650 00:31:23,403 --> 00:31:24,578 [ hip hop music plays ] 651 00:31:24,621 --> 00:31:26,232 [ cheering ] 652 00:31:32,891 --> 00:31:35,110 - I love that I'm a part of this scene 653 00:31:35,154 --> 00:31:38,940 that isn't Broadway, it's its own inclusive 654 00:31:38,984 --> 00:31:42,988 but weird off-kilter, pretty, 655 00:31:43,031 --> 00:31:45,904 but also kind of deranged atmosphere. 656 00:31:45,947 --> 00:31:48,863 [ cheering ] 657 00:31:48,907 --> 00:31:50,604 - When I moved to New York, 658 00:31:50,647 --> 00:31:54,390 I found something that makes me feel good in my body, 659 00:31:54,434 --> 00:31:57,045 especially when I'm on stage. 660 00:31:57,089 --> 00:31:59,961 Owning your body and owning what you do 661 00:32:00,005 --> 00:32:02,224 with your body publicly, 662 00:32:02,268 --> 00:32:05,271 is a really freeing expression for yourself, 663 00:32:05,314 --> 00:32:07,490 but it's also freeing for people to experience. 664 00:32:07,534 --> 00:32:08,970 [ audience cheering ] 665 00:32:09,014 --> 00:32:10,841 - Give it up for Chris Harder, everybody! 666 00:32:19,807 --> 00:32:22,027 - I find my inspiration for my performances 667 00:32:22,070 --> 00:32:24,986 all over the place. 668 00:32:25,030 --> 00:32:26,727 I do the Cuban immigrant number 669 00:32:26,770 --> 00:32:29,643 to really show my family story. 670 00:32:29,686 --> 00:32:31,036 And kind of tap into that. 671 00:32:31,079 --> 00:32:32,994 And just have like a part of my heritage 672 00:32:33,038 --> 00:32:35,170 be on stage. 673 00:32:35,214 --> 00:32:37,477 And when I'm dressed like a Cuban immigrant, 674 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,958 I have a glove reveal, but instead of it being gloves, 675 00:32:40,001 --> 00:32:42,003 it's a flotation device. 676 00:32:42,047 --> 00:32:44,963 So it's traditional but it's also not. 677 00:32:47,617 --> 00:32:50,881 That's what make it an art. 678 00:32:50,925 --> 00:32:53,623 It's inherently political just to be getting on stage 679 00:32:53,667 --> 00:32:55,190 and taking off your clothing. 680 00:32:55,234 --> 00:32:57,671 Poking fun at that really allows people 681 00:32:57,714 --> 00:33:00,717 to not take sex so seriously, 682 00:33:00,761 --> 00:33:02,981 to the point where they are just like repressing 683 00:33:03,024 --> 00:33:05,070 just being themselves. 684 00:33:07,028 --> 00:33:09,161 When you hear everyone scream, 685 00:33:09,204 --> 00:33:10,684 they're screaming not only for you, 686 00:33:10,727 --> 00:33:12,381 but they're also screaming for themselves, 687 00:33:12,425 --> 00:33:15,123 so it's just this like feeling of unison that you have 688 00:33:15,167 --> 00:33:16,995 with everyone in the show. 689 00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:22,783 And whether it's because they saw something that was so crazy 690 00:33:22,826 --> 00:33:24,741 that it makes them just be like, 691 00:33:24,785 --> 00:33:26,656 "Wow, I handled that and that was okay, 692 00:33:26,700 --> 00:33:29,311 and I survived." 693 00:33:29,355 --> 00:33:32,706 The idea of making sure that that audience walks out of there 694 00:33:32,749 --> 00:33:34,795 a little more enlightened then when they walked in. 695 00:33:34,838 --> 00:33:37,058 [ audience cheering ] 696 00:33:37,102 --> 00:33:41,062 - Sexuality, sex, drives everything we do in life. 697 00:33:41,106 --> 00:33:43,630 We should glorify it. 698 00:33:43,673 --> 00:33:47,068 We're alive on earth for a very short amount of time. 699 00:33:47,112 --> 00:33:49,288 Just be yourself. 700 00:33:50,550 --> 00:33:53,727 - You can explore your sexuality 701 00:33:53,770 --> 00:33:56,121 in a lot of surprising ways. 702 00:33:56,164 --> 00:33:59,907 You can own your body, 703 00:33:59,950 --> 00:34:02,214 and be good enough. 704 00:34:02,257 --> 00:34:04,955 - I think it's beautiful and the actual 705 00:34:04,999 --> 00:34:07,480 sexual liberation of it, 706 00:34:07,523 --> 00:34:10,961 that to me is what especially today burlesque is about. 707 00:34:17,229 --> 00:34:18,534 - How would we spice up our sex life? 708 00:34:18,578 --> 00:34:20,406 That's a great question. 709 00:34:20,449 --> 00:34:22,886 It's, uh, I don't think there's much left to be explored 710 00:34:22,930 --> 00:34:26,673 until we, you know, completely turn things on their ear. 711 00:34:26,716 --> 00:34:29,545 - Yeah, you know, when you get older things just, 712 00:34:29,589 --> 00:34:31,112 we did a lot of stuff when we were younger 713 00:34:31,156 --> 00:34:32,853 we just probably don't do anymore. 714 00:34:36,900 --> 00:34:38,728 - No. - Yes. 715 00:34:40,687 --> 00:34:43,994 - Vibrators, and we used... - Plugs. 716 00:34:44,038 --> 00:34:45,257 - Plugs, we used a lot of butt plugs. 717 00:34:45,300 --> 00:34:46,954 - Got her a tail for, like, Christmas. 718 00:34:46,997 --> 00:34:48,825 I got you last year? 719 00:34:48,869 --> 00:34:50,523 - Oh yeah, I have a pretty purple fox tail. 720 00:34:50,566 --> 00:34:53,265 - One of my girlfriends, she got me something that 721 00:34:53,308 --> 00:34:55,745 I was like, I didn't even know that these existed. 722 00:34:55,789 --> 00:34:58,618 So, they're like vibrating underwear? 723 00:34:58,661 --> 00:35:03,710 - We got a ring, it holds the penis. 724 00:35:03,753 --> 00:35:06,582 - Just being open and being with somebody who's also open 725 00:35:06,626 --> 00:35:07,844 is really awesome. 726 00:35:07,888 --> 00:35:10,238 Because then, you can just like, 727 00:35:10,282 --> 00:35:12,327 say "Yo, okay, jam something in my ass now." 728 00:35:12,371 --> 00:35:13,589 It's like, "let's do this." 729 00:35:19,508 --> 00:35:22,207 - Sex dolls are, like, the next wave 730 00:35:22,250 --> 00:35:24,470 of interacting sexually. 731 00:35:26,124 --> 00:35:29,866 Because you're creating an imagination and fantasy 732 00:35:29,910 --> 00:35:33,435 with your doll that you don't get in other toys. 733 00:35:33,479 --> 00:35:36,090 Sex dolls is a really great way 734 00:35:36,134 --> 00:35:37,700 to kind of bring back the fun... 735 00:35:37,744 --> 00:35:38,919 [ woman moans ] 736 00:35:38,962 --> 00:35:41,182 The playfulness. 737 00:35:41,226 --> 00:35:42,618 And laughter. 738 00:35:42,662 --> 00:35:44,664 And pleasure. 739 00:35:44,707 --> 00:35:46,579 Bringing in any type of toy 740 00:35:46,622 --> 00:35:48,929 enhances that eroticism 741 00:35:48,972 --> 00:35:50,191 and creates more pleasure. 742 00:35:59,069 --> 00:36:00,375 - Hey. - What's up? 743 00:36:00,419 --> 00:36:01,768 - What'd you do with the ketchup? 744 00:36:01,811 --> 00:36:03,204 - Say what? 745 00:36:03,248 --> 00:36:04,945 - Did you really just give me one package? 746 00:36:04,988 --> 00:36:06,686 - I saw that hello. - I'm not a baby. 747 00:36:06,729 --> 00:36:08,253 - Never said you was a baby. 748 00:36:08,296 --> 00:36:09,689 But you don't use a lot of ketchup like me. 749 00:36:09,732 --> 00:36:12,866 Bra, I pay attention to you for eight years. 750 00:36:12,909 --> 00:36:14,172 If I don't know you by now, 751 00:36:14,215 --> 00:36:15,564 then something wrong. 752 00:36:15,608 --> 00:36:18,088 - Corey and I met in Florida. 753 00:36:18,132 --> 00:36:20,569 I was really attracted to all the muscles. 754 00:36:20,613 --> 00:36:22,005 He was really buff then. 755 00:36:22,049 --> 00:36:24,051 I don't know what happened, but... 756 00:36:26,314 --> 00:36:28,708 - That's a lot of ass. 757 00:36:28,751 --> 00:36:32,059 - When we first met, the sex life was amazing. 758 00:36:32,102 --> 00:36:34,192 I was just truly addicted to him. 759 00:36:34,235 --> 00:36:36,411 And vice versa. It was fireworks. 760 00:36:37,412 --> 00:36:39,109 I talked to my Mama today. 761 00:36:39,153 --> 00:36:42,112 And I was telling her, I know I'm your wild child. 762 00:36:42,156 --> 00:36:43,636 - What is wild about you? 763 00:36:43,679 --> 00:36:45,115 - I have tattoos. - What that mean? 764 00:36:45,159 --> 00:36:46,595 - I have piercings. - What that mean? 765 00:36:46,639 --> 00:36:47,596 - Nobody in my family has that. 766 00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:49,163 - That's not wild. 767 00:36:49,207 --> 00:36:52,253 If they only knew the shit that we done together... 768 00:36:52,297 --> 00:36:54,734 - Our sex life changed, I would definitely say 769 00:36:54,777 --> 00:36:56,997 after we had our daughter. 770 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,694 I went through a little post-partum. 771 00:36:58,738 --> 00:37:02,132 I didn't have the sex drive like he did. 772 00:37:02,176 --> 00:37:05,266 And that's when everything kind of went down south. 773 00:37:05,310 --> 00:37:09,096 - My level of freak, your level of freak. 774 00:37:09,139 --> 00:37:11,577 - What? - Exactly. 775 00:37:11,620 --> 00:37:13,535 - When we tried to rekindle it, 776 00:37:13,579 --> 00:37:16,059 we started going to hang out at the swinger's clubs. 777 00:37:16,103 --> 00:37:19,106 And I have found that to be a turn on for me, 778 00:37:19,149 --> 00:37:20,977 just kind of watching other people have sex. 779 00:37:21,021 --> 00:37:24,677 And then we talked about having a threesome 780 00:37:24,720 --> 00:37:25,808 or would I be interested, 781 00:37:25,852 --> 00:37:27,419 and I was just kind of like 782 00:37:27,462 --> 00:37:28,942 that's not something I've ever thought about. 783 00:37:28,985 --> 00:37:30,596 [ laughs ] 784 00:37:30,639 --> 00:37:33,163 So we've been trying to figure out ways to 785 00:37:33,207 --> 00:37:36,166 have a threesome and kind of getting me comfortable with 786 00:37:36,210 --> 00:37:38,168 having another woman in the room. 787 00:37:44,174 --> 00:37:45,611 - We gotta go to the app. 788 00:37:45,654 --> 00:37:48,091 - I got this. Just chill. - All right. 789 00:37:48,135 --> 00:37:49,571 - See? Here she goes right here. 790 00:37:49,615 --> 00:37:51,399 See, I like her all day long. 791 00:37:51,443 --> 00:37:53,053 But look how real she looks. 792 00:37:56,361 --> 00:37:58,276 - If a couple wants to open their relationship 793 00:37:58,319 --> 00:38:00,408 to more partners, but there is a concern, 794 00:38:00,452 --> 00:38:03,759 a sex doll might be a really good middle ground 795 00:38:03,803 --> 00:38:05,718 for that couple to play with 796 00:38:05,761 --> 00:38:08,982 and to explore without putting the relationship at risk. 797 00:38:09,025 --> 00:38:10,984 - She could be thick, just find a different one. 798 00:38:11,027 --> 00:38:12,551 I'm not vibing with this one. 799 00:38:12,594 --> 00:38:14,683 - As a sex therapist, I've used sex dolls 800 00:38:14,727 --> 00:38:17,251 in the therapeutic context for a long time. 801 00:38:17,295 --> 00:38:19,297 Incorporating a sex doll can really enhance 802 00:38:19,340 --> 00:38:21,299 the erotic excitement that goes on. 803 00:38:21,342 --> 00:38:22,909 - She even got a little... - She got a landing strip. 804 00:38:22,952 --> 00:38:24,345 - Landing strip. 805 00:38:24,389 --> 00:38:25,694 - You never want to hurt your relationship. 806 00:38:25,738 --> 00:38:27,174 And when somebody means the world to you, 807 00:38:27,217 --> 00:38:29,437 you want them to feel like they make you feel 808 00:38:29,481 --> 00:38:31,309 like you're the greatest thing on earth, and she does. 809 00:38:31,352 --> 00:38:34,660 I'm never, like, not satisfied when I have sex with her. 810 00:38:34,703 --> 00:38:36,226 Just don't have that drive no more 811 00:38:36,270 --> 00:38:37,706 that we had at the beginning. 812 00:38:37,750 --> 00:38:39,752 - I just want you to look at shape and size 813 00:38:39,795 --> 00:38:41,014 cause you can customize the color. 814 00:38:41,057 --> 00:38:42,407 - Okay. 815 00:38:42,450 --> 00:38:44,322 Oh my God! 816 00:38:44,365 --> 00:38:47,673 Why she ain't got no head? Who thinks of shit like this? 817 00:38:47,716 --> 00:38:49,283 Who does that? 818 00:38:49,327 --> 00:38:51,633 Nothing can replace the real deal. 819 00:38:51,677 --> 00:38:53,940 But I'm gonna try it because 820 00:38:53,983 --> 00:38:55,855 I never want to lose Ashley. 821 00:38:55,898 --> 00:38:57,291 It's crazy to say love at first sight, 822 00:38:57,335 --> 00:38:59,293 like as soon as I saw her, 823 00:38:59,337 --> 00:39:01,077 I knew that's where I wanted to be. 824 00:39:01,121 --> 00:39:03,645 - Oh, look at this one. - Oh, shit. 825 00:39:03,689 --> 00:39:05,647 Jameson. 826 00:39:05,691 --> 00:39:07,432 When we first started having sex, 827 00:39:07,475 --> 00:39:08,911 man, we was like rabbits. 828 00:39:08,955 --> 00:39:10,913 Now it's like turtles. 829 00:39:10,957 --> 00:39:12,611 [ chuckles ] 830 00:39:12,654 --> 00:39:15,309 Hold on, hold on. Jameson. Is she a sister? Is she Spanish? 831 00:39:15,353 --> 00:39:17,224 - She looks like she's from Brazil. 832 00:39:17,267 --> 00:39:19,269 - That would be my ideal situation is to keep Ash 833 00:39:19,313 --> 00:39:21,881 and have somebody that she respects. 834 00:39:21,924 --> 00:39:25,319 - You could have a threesome right here with that ass. 835 00:39:25,363 --> 00:39:29,279 - That's why these dolls, I'm hoping is a good situation. 836 00:39:32,587 --> 00:39:34,502 - Mom, do you want it darker than this? 837 00:39:34,546 --> 00:39:36,461 - Yeah, I can't even see it. 838 00:39:36,504 --> 00:39:38,158 - How's that? - That looks great. 839 00:39:38,201 --> 00:39:40,508 - Tell me when you are ready. - Ready when you are. 840 00:39:40,552 --> 00:39:42,380 - Okay, and go. 841 00:39:42,423 --> 00:39:46,819 - I'm going to show you how to insert a replaceable vagina. 842 00:39:46,862 --> 00:39:49,561 You'll need our premium renewal powder, 843 00:39:49,604 --> 00:39:52,607 and then when you open it up, it just will stretch right open 844 00:39:52,651 --> 00:39:55,567 and then you'll just insert it in with one hand 845 00:39:55,610 --> 00:39:57,525 seat it all the way back. 846 00:39:57,569 --> 00:40:00,267 We're the number one seller of realistic life-size sex dolls 847 00:40:00,310 --> 00:40:01,355 in the United States. 848 00:40:01,399 --> 00:40:03,052 And she's ready to go. 849 00:40:03,096 --> 00:40:06,273 And I sell sex dolls with my mom. 850 00:40:06,316 --> 00:40:07,274 It's pretty exciting. 851 00:40:07,317 --> 00:40:09,232 - Just get her cleaned up. 852 00:40:09,276 --> 00:40:12,758 Quite a few years ago, I saw a sex doll 853 00:40:12,801 --> 00:40:14,542 and I didn't know anything about them. 854 00:40:14,586 --> 00:40:16,675 Oh, that's great. 855 00:40:16,718 --> 00:40:18,546 But I fell in love with them. 856 00:40:18,590 --> 00:40:20,069 There we go. 857 00:40:20,113 --> 00:40:24,204 They're so finely crafted and gorgeous, 858 00:40:24,247 --> 00:40:26,728 I just knew that I had to bring them to the world. 859 00:40:28,382 --> 00:40:30,297 What really makes us love what we do 860 00:40:30,340 --> 00:40:33,605 is the fulfillment that these dolls bring to people's lives. 861 00:40:33,648 --> 00:40:35,737 - I think she's good. 862 00:40:35,781 --> 00:40:39,045 There's a lot of misconceptions about who's buying sex dolls. 863 00:40:43,397 --> 00:40:46,226 - Some people have maybe some medical issues 864 00:40:46,269 --> 00:40:49,838 like ED, or they've had limited sexual experience. 865 00:40:49,882 --> 00:40:51,361 Limited sexual partners. 866 00:40:51,405 --> 00:40:53,146 They may be later in life virgins, 867 00:40:53,189 --> 00:40:55,453 or they have performance anxiety. 868 00:40:55,496 --> 00:40:57,672 - She is thick! 869 00:40:57,716 --> 00:40:59,979 - But for a lot of other people, 870 00:41:00,022 --> 00:41:01,589 it's more than that. 871 00:41:01,633 --> 00:41:04,723 It's such a fun way for men and women 872 00:41:04,766 --> 00:41:08,683 to experience sex in a safe and meaningful way. 873 00:41:08,727 --> 00:41:10,555 Uh-oh, uh-oh. 874 00:41:10,598 --> 00:41:11,817 Knocked your hat off. 875 00:41:11,860 --> 00:41:13,296 - Oh, she's so large. 876 00:41:13,340 --> 00:41:15,603 - It became easier once I became educated. 877 00:41:15,647 --> 00:41:18,171 It became empowering to be able to help people 878 00:41:18,214 --> 00:41:20,260 achieve sexual experiences 879 00:41:20,303 --> 00:41:22,001 that they didn't anticipate that they could have. 880 00:41:22,044 --> 00:41:24,482 - These eyes are really green, aren't they? 881 00:41:26,135 --> 00:41:28,137 - She looks so happy to be here. 882 00:41:28,181 --> 00:41:30,096 If I can help people enjoy sex, 883 00:41:30,139 --> 00:41:32,664 what's better than that? 884 00:41:32,707 --> 00:41:33,969 Oh, yeah, she looks really pretty. 885 00:41:38,844 --> 00:41:41,673 - I've been, like, anticipating this doll all week. 886 00:41:41,716 --> 00:41:43,936 Jameson. 887 00:41:43,979 --> 00:41:49,115 So, I'm curious what it's going to look like. 888 00:41:49,158 --> 00:41:52,988 I'm ready to see, see, touch and feel. 889 00:41:53,032 --> 00:41:55,556 Goodness, that box. So big. 890 00:41:57,166 --> 00:41:58,385 I'm sure my neighbors are going to be like, 891 00:41:58,428 --> 00:42:00,169 "What the hell?" 892 00:42:00,213 --> 00:42:01,693 It's huge! 893 00:42:01,736 --> 00:42:04,130 There's Jameson. 894 00:42:04,173 --> 00:42:06,567 She's here. 895 00:42:06,611 --> 00:42:08,221 Oh, it is kind of heavy. 896 00:42:08,264 --> 00:42:10,136 Oh. 897 00:42:10,179 --> 00:42:11,877 It's almost like a dead body or something. 898 00:42:16,229 --> 00:42:18,623 When Corey gets here, it's game time. 899 00:42:18,666 --> 00:42:21,147 - Hey, I gotta go, I gotta go. You in the way, move. 900 00:42:21,190 --> 00:42:23,018 I gotta get to Jameson. 901 00:42:23,062 --> 00:42:25,586 I'm curious, I'm interested, you know? 902 00:42:25,630 --> 00:42:27,109 It's just new. It's new territory. 903 00:42:27,153 --> 00:42:28,894 So I'm all for it. 904 00:42:28,937 --> 00:42:30,809 I never want to lose Ashley, 905 00:42:30,852 --> 00:42:32,811 and that's why I'm like, I'm gonna try a sex doll out. 906 00:42:35,204 --> 00:42:36,292 - Babe. 907 00:42:38,033 --> 00:42:39,078 She came. 908 00:42:39,121 --> 00:42:40,819 [ laughing ] 909 00:42:42,124 --> 00:42:43,169 - Yo. 910 00:42:43,212 --> 00:42:44,997 - Look how big it is. 911 00:42:45,040 --> 00:42:47,434 I'm opening this little box. - It better not be the head. 912 00:42:47,477 --> 00:42:50,655 I just feel like it's a dead body. 913 00:42:50,698 --> 00:42:52,178 If it's the head, I'm gonna scream. 914 00:42:52,221 --> 00:42:53,919 - It's not the head. - Okay. 915 00:42:53,962 --> 00:42:55,877 - It's the accessories. 916 00:42:55,921 --> 00:42:58,097 Vibrator. - For the doll? 917 00:42:58,140 --> 00:43:00,839 - Smart warming wand. It looked like a vibrator. 918 00:43:00,882 --> 00:43:02,928 Warming wand. 919 00:43:02,971 --> 00:43:05,191 I guess you're supposed to warm the coochie with that. 920 00:43:05,234 --> 00:43:07,410 [ laughs ] 921 00:43:07,454 --> 00:43:11,240 - When relationships invite a sex doll into their sex play, 922 00:43:11,284 --> 00:43:14,679 it's really important to just spend some time with it 923 00:43:14,722 --> 00:43:16,637 before you decide to have sex with it. 924 00:43:16,681 --> 00:43:19,727 - Oh my God, look how my hands just kind of... 925 00:43:19,771 --> 00:43:21,860 bleed into her. Like... 926 00:43:21,903 --> 00:43:25,298 - You'll need to get good at maneuvering them, 927 00:43:25,341 --> 00:43:27,779 so that you can experience the maximum pleasure 928 00:43:27,822 --> 00:43:30,172 before the erections show up. 929 00:43:30,216 --> 00:43:32,522 - This is crazy. - Oh. 930 00:43:32,566 --> 00:43:35,613 - What? The arms and stuff move. 931 00:43:35,656 --> 00:43:37,615 - Oh, shit. 932 00:43:37,658 --> 00:43:39,181 [ laughs ] 933 00:43:39,225 --> 00:43:41,575 I need some lube and a little warm. 934 00:43:41,619 --> 00:43:43,142 I'll be like this. 935 00:43:43,185 --> 00:43:44,709 [ Ashley laughs ] 936 00:43:44,752 --> 00:43:45,971 - With no head. 937 00:43:46,014 --> 00:43:47,537 - Oh, she got a tongue. 938 00:43:47,581 --> 00:43:49,365 Oh, thank you, Jesus. 939 00:43:49,409 --> 00:43:50,366 So, we gonna go to a hotel later? 940 00:43:50,410 --> 00:43:52,064 What we gonna do? 941 00:43:52,107 --> 00:43:54,066 - Yeah, let's make it a date night. 942 00:43:54,109 --> 00:43:56,242 Make this a night to remember. 943 00:43:59,332 --> 00:44:01,508 Having the sex doll is going to be interesting. 944 00:44:01,551 --> 00:44:04,859 But I think I'll feel a lot more comfortable knowing that 945 00:44:04,903 --> 00:44:06,513 she's not going to come between us 946 00:44:06,556 --> 00:44:08,080 and break up our home. 947 00:44:08,123 --> 00:44:10,778 I'm excited because it's something new. 948 00:44:10,822 --> 00:44:13,433 And I am very open to trying new things. 949 00:44:13,476 --> 00:44:15,827 You know, that little dose that I had 950 00:44:15,870 --> 00:44:18,090 when we went watching other people have sex 951 00:44:18,133 --> 00:44:21,789 at the swingers club just gave me, like, this bad girl feeling. 952 00:44:21,833 --> 00:44:23,748 And I just felt real sexy. 953 00:44:23,791 --> 00:44:26,576 I want to have this freaky, sexy side. 954 00:44:26,620 --> 00:44:30,189 Eventually I do want to get to having couples 955 00:44:30,232 --> 00:44:32,800 and swingers parties at my own house. 956 00:44:32,844 --> 00:44:34,715 The doll is definitely a baby step, 957 00:44:34,759 --> 00:44:37,675 and right now I need to take all the baby steps I can get. 958 00:44:37,718 --> 00:44:39,807 Ready for date night, babe? 959 00:44:39,851 --> 00:44:41,461 - I was made for this. 960 00:44:44,551 --> 00:44:46,596 I think Ashley would be okay with me 961 00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,338 having sex with the doll as much as I want. 962 00:44:52,211 --> 00:44:55,083 I'm hoping the experience from the sex doll 963 00:44:55,127 --> 00:44:56,868 eventually moves to something that, you know, 964 00:44:56,911 --> 00:44:59,653 there being another person involved 965 00:44:59,697 --> 00:45:01,568 sexually with us both. 966 00:45:04,005 --> 00:45:05,659 - Corey's always stressed to me, 967 00:45:05,703 --> 00:45:07,661 he's a very touchy, feely person 968 00:45:07,705 --> 00:45:10,011 and sex is what makes him feel appreciated. 969 00:45:10,055 --> 00:45:13,232 So, of course, I want to fulfill every fantasy for him. 970 00:45:13,275 --> 00:45:16,626 Just like I would want him to fulfill my fantasies 971 00:45:16,670 --> 00:45:19,542 which he really does a great job on doing. 972 00:45:19,586 --> 00:45:20,892 - Oh, that was easy. 973 00:45:20,935 --> 00:45:23,416 Watch a little TV. 974 00:45:24,460 --> 00:45:25,853 [ knocking ] 975 00:45:30,379 --> 00:45:31,685 [ Ashley giggles ] 976 00:45:31,729 --> 00:45:34,906 - Hey, babe. 977 00:45:34,949 --> 00:45:36,777 What are you smiling cheesy big? 978 00:45:36,821 --> 00:45:38,213 - Because somebody want to meet you. 979 00:45:38,257 --> 00:45:40,215 - Oh, Lord. - Somebody been waiting on you. 980 00:45:40,259 --> 00:45:42,522 [ laughs ] 981 00:45:42,565 --> 00:45:43,828 - You did good, poppy. 982 00:45:43,871 --> 00:45:45,220 [ chuckles ] 983 00:45:45,264 --> 00:45:47,222 I'm really really curious 984 00:45:47,266 --> 00:45:49,790 to see what it's going to do for us 985 00:45:49,834 --> 00:45:51,966 to excite us, so it may be like 986 00:45:52,010 --> 00:45:54,099 a nightly thing where we're just having sex all the time, 987 00:45:54,142 --> 00:45:56,101 just the three of us. 988 00:45:56,144 --> 00:45:57,450 You gotta warm her up. 989 00:45:58,930 --> 00:46:00,235 There you go. 990 00:46:00,279 --> 00:46:01,584 This is so nice. 991 00:46:03,282 --> 00:46:05,850 Oh. 992 00:46:05,893 --> 00:46:09,723 [ laughs ] 993 00:46:09,767 --> 00:46:12,204 You got to let her warm up. 994 00:46:12,247 --> 00:46:14,032 - What the fuck? 995 00:46:14,075 --> 00:46:18,036 - I'ma go to the bathroom. Put on this shirt real quick. 996 00:46:18,079 --> 00:46:21,909 - When couples use sex dolls as a way to sort of practice 997 00:46:21,953 --> 00:46:23,955 or to see what it might look like 998 00:46:23,998 --> 00:46:26,871 if their partner would have sex with someone else, 999 00:46:26,914 --> 00:46:29,874 it's actually its own erotic experience. 1000 00:46:32,441 --> 00:46:33,399 - Suck my finger. 1001 00:46:33,442 --> 00:46:35,618 [ laughs ] 1002 00:46:35,662 --> 00:46:38,447 Can you feel it? - Yeah, I feel it. 1003 00:46:41,929 --> 00:46:44,410 [ laughing ] - Can you feel it? 1004 00:46:44,453 --> 00:46:47,021 - A sex doll brings back kind of that view 1005 00:46:47,065 --> 00:46:49,763 of sexuality we had when we didn't forget 1006 00:46:49,807 --> 00:46:51,286 that it was supposed to be fun. 1007 00:46:54,681 --> 00:46:56,596 So we will turn her around. 1008 00:46:58,903 --> 00:47:01,209 - Okay. - Hold up. 1009 00:47:01,253 --> 00:47:02,863 Pull her legs up more so that way... 1010 00:47:04,909 --> 00:47:06,693 - Oh my God. 1011 00:47:17,704 --> 00:47:19,706 Oh my God. 1012 00:47:19,749 --> 00:47:21,186 Oh my God, I killed the bitch. 1013 00:47:22,448 --> 00:47:24,667 I killed the bitch! 1014 00:47:24,711 --> 00:47:26,104 I'm sorry. 1015 00:47:26,147 --> 00:47:27,583 - You pulled her head off! 1016 00:47:27,627 --> 00:47:29,890 [ laughing ] 1017 00:47:29,934 --> 00:47:32,327 - Damn! I'm not happy. 1018 00:47:32,371 --> 00:47:33,328 - Come on. 1019 00:47:33,372 --> 00:47:35,417 - Wait, I can't... 1020 00:47:35,461 --> 00:47:37,245 Can't get into this shit. 1021 00:47:37,289 --> 00:47:40,335 I'm not aroused, I'm not excited. 1022 00:47:40,379 --> 00:47:42,729 I'm, like, excited before I got to it. 1023 00:47:42,772 --> 00:47:43,773 I'm not excited. 1024 00:47:46,602 --> 00:47:47,690 Looking at you can get me hard. 1025 00:47:47,734 --> 00:47:49,257 I don't need nothing. 1026 00:47:49,301 --> 00:47:51,520 Soon as I see you I get hard, you know this. 1027 00:47:51,564 --> 00:47:54,349 - So why do we need another woman? 1028 00:47:54,393 --> 00:47:56,003 - We don't need another woman. 1029 00:47:56,047 --> 00:47:59,833 I get turned on by, like the energy I get back, you know. 1030 00:48:00,878 --> 00:48:02,662 That's how I finish. 1031 00:48:02,705 --> 00:48:06,361 - Will you be turned on if you see my practicing eating her? 1032 00:48:09,103 --> 00:48:11,062 - Anything's better than what's been happening. 1033 00:48:11,105 --> 00:48:12,933 - Okay, well, we'll try this way first, 1034 00:48:12,977 --> 00:48:14,587 and I'll, like, get on her, 1035 00:48:14,630 --> 00:48:15,631 and, like, have my ass up. 1036 00:48:15,675 --> 00:48:17,068 - Put your ass on her face. 1037 00:48:17,111 --> 00:48:18,721 Let's try. - Let's try. 1038 00:48:21,159 --> 00:48:22,508 That works. 1039 00:48:24,379 --> 00:48:26,077 Put her hand on my ass. 1040 00:48:28,209 --> 00:48:29,471 - All right. 1041 00:48:31,343 --> 00:48:33,127 There we go. 1042 00:48:33,171 --> 00:48:34,520 - We figured it out. 1043 00:48:34,563 --> 00:48:35,825 - Feeling some shit. 1044 00:48:35,869 --> 00:48:39,351 - Watching him have sex with Jameson, 1045 00:48:39,394 --> 00:48:42,006 it was actually a turn-on. 1046 00:48:46,314 --> 00:48:48,795 I thought I would feel some type of way 1047 00:48:48,838 --> 00:48:51,319 but like I'm truly, truly turned on. 1048 00:48:56,759 --> 00:48:58,326 - You want to put the strawberry stuff on her? 1049 00:48:58,370 --> 00:49:00,111 - Oh, yeah, for taste. 1050 00:49:00,154 --> 00:49:01,721 Yeah. 1051 00:49:04,593 --> 00:49:06,291 [ Ashley moans ] 1052 00:49:06,334 --> 00:49:10,077 - Seeing Ashley perform oral on Jameson 1053 00:49:10,121 --> 00:49:11,949 This is what I want. 1054 00:49:11,992 --> 00:49:13,559 That's what I signed up for. 1055 00:49:17,041 --> 00:49:18,390 - Yeah. 1056 00:49:20,522 --> 00:49:23,264 [ moaning ] 1057 00:49:23,308 --> 00:49:25,005 - You didn't leave nothing for Jameson! 1058 00:49:29,836 --> 00:49:31,359 That was a good experience. 1059 00:49:31,403 --> 00:49:34,754 - I'm not gonna lie. That was actually good. 1060 00:49:34,797 --> 00:49:36,843 At first I was just like, eh, what is this? 1061 00:49:36,886 --> 00:49:38,018 You know, this is too much work. 1062 00:49:38,062 --> 00:49:39,367 But then once we got into it, 1063 00:49:39,411 --> 00:49:40,586 I could see the potential. 1064 00:49:40,629 --> 00:49:42,501 I could see this becoming more so. 1065 00:49:42,544 --> 00:49:44,851 I think that we should, uh, attempt 1066 00:49:44,894 --> 00:49:46,896 to have somebody come join us for real. 1067 00:49:46,940 --> 00:49:50,552 - I could see us actually bringing in another chick. 1068 00:49:50,596 --> 00:49:52,641 It's like a little threesome with... 1069 00:49:52,685 --> 00:49:55,035 - The three of y'all, you, Jameson. 1070 00:49:55,079 --> 00:49:57,820 - Me, another chick and Jameson and instead of him 1071 00:49:57,864 --> 00:50:00,432 fucking the other woman, 1072 00:50:00,475 --> 00:50:02,825 he can fuck me and Jameson. Only. 1073 00:50:02,869 --> 00:50:04,653 [ laughs ] 1074 00:50:04,697 --> 00:50:05,785 That way no other chick will get dickmetized. 1075 00:50:05,828 --> 00:50:08,396 Jameson can't get dickmetized. 1076 00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:10,877 Nobody's getting dickmetized over here but me.